really, you're going with icky?
don't get me wrong, you're so right about the stupid part. i mean, all the internalization and stoicism is reinforced if not outright taught, but, yeah we're idiots. very few guys play games
Hey-- the exact same thing happened to me and my best friend, (a guy). He was amazing-- sweet, caring, absolutely wonderful, and, he totally understood me (and vice versa!).
We were so similar and got along so well! We were best friends... and THEN suddenly, he starts ignoring me. :( Tried text messaging him several times (normal messages like 'Hey, what's up'), no response.
Facebook messaged him as well, asking if things were alright, still no response. He's been known to zone out and not talk to anyone once in a while (maybe for a couple of days), but this has gone on for more than a week, which is abnormal for someone who kept in touch with me every day.
The last time we spoke, things were totally normal, perfect, even! No arguments, no misunderstandings, he was just as eager to talk to me as I was. I have gone over what I said over and over again and I still don't understand what I said that was wrong or weird! I am just hoping he'll come around. It makes me sad to think that I might be losing him, he meant so much to me. Well, it's just been over a week, so I'm gonna wait it out. Let's see what happens.
How did things turn out for you? I realize your post is quite old, haha :D
Hey Lionel, read through everything. I haven't started dating anyone lately, no. So I don't think it could be reason 1. It might be that he's confused about his feelings for me and has no idea as to how to tell me, OR, he could be just plain ignoring me (possibility of another girl in the picture, too, who knows?) In any case, gonna just wait and see what happens. He's busy with exams this week, and I'm just gonna wait and see if he gets back to me himself, afterwards. Thanks for your help! =] =]
maybe he likes you. as a guy, i tend to get nervous around girls i like, eerrmm here's an example.
I was walking home from school, and i saw a pretty girl who was in my homeroom, took me about 5 minutes to get the courage to talk to her. after that i saw her again in homeroom, but i kept thinking that she thought i was a loser and i only waved and then walked away. Now when we see each other i wave and she wavs bu t i always end up thinkign that she's thinking: "oh, this guy again". Alot of us are extremely insecure.
same problem me also facing now a day..... they are stupid person and can easily forget.....everything... now he s closing to someone... he knows very welll... i'll feel for him.. he doesn't care abt me............ :( but still i'm waitin for his msg... and carin... i hate myself.. why i should wait for him ... i don't know
if he is playing games with you I don't think he's worth your time. If you still want to be friends with him you should talk to him, explaining that you do still want to be friends x