A guy friend stopped talking to me for no reason why???

[Liby Swan]

I have this guy friend who is all amazing and stuff but not right now. He has stopped talking to me for no reason at all. I have thought over every detail in my head and I did nothing wrong. My friends told me to tell him about what I was feeling (wrong idea). It didn't end well, he doesn't like things that are touchy feelly. Even thought he should have said sorry to me I said sorry to him "for the mistake I made". I said sorry and guess what happened? He is still ignoring me! ^_^( Not really no, not a happy face)
I'm so confused is he just playing games with me? or is there another reason? Please help!

[The Black Knight]

You told him you liked him then he started ignoring you? Whats the problem?

[BSmith]

If you told him that you like him and he's ignoring you, it's probably because he doesn't reciprocate. Therefore being around you probably makes him feel awkward, and very few people enjoy feeling awkward.

[Albert K.]

lol i have the same issue, but vise versa, just go up to him and say "I understand your not intersted in me, let's just be friends" i'd say ok to that ;)

[Randy Rice]

Judging by the replies i apperently missed where you said that you told him you liked him. If you did and he ignores you then hes just a guy and doesnt know how to deal with not liking you back.

If you didnt say that and he is simply just randomly ignoring you then i would just give him space. He'll come back eventually he may have some hidden issue with you that you wouldnt see unless you were a guy and once he realizes how stupid it was hell get over it. Just don't give him crap about it or beg to know why he was ignoring you and it should be fine.

[Laura]

Maybe he doesn't like you, or he does & doesn't know how to act around you now. But I'm going to go with the former, since that's what it sounds like to me. I mean, he doesn't like things touchy feely? It's not like you were jumping him, just telling him how you feel. For now I would advise you to just try to let it go. If he doesn't talk to you again, then he isn't worth your time (read: trying to wonder what you did wrong, because from what you've said, you did nothing wrong. You were just honest).

[Liby Swan]

Sorry I guess I confused everyone, I don't like him at all. It will never happen ever. He just started ignoring me for no reason what so ever

[BSmith]

Well if you told him it will never happen ever that might also be the issue :p

[Laura]

That pretty much changes everything. If you told him that you could never like him though before he started ignoring you, it could be because he feels that he has no reason to talk to you now if you're not going to like him & just doesn't want to be friends. If you told him after he started ignoring you, that could be part of the reason why he is continuing to ignore you. I mean even if you weren't trying to be mean or anything, it's still kind of a diss.

[Randy Rice]

I didnt see where you had said that everyone else just seemed to see that so i thought just in case id answer both ways. Trust me, hes just being a guy. He'll get over himself eventually. I say this, as a guy, he's just being a guy. It likely has nothing to do with you he either did something that he thinks you will react badly to and instead of going to you hes avoiding you. I'm sure it will blow over.

[spiderboenz]

What the hell does "just being a guy" mean??

[Simen Pamplemousse Hus]

I don't want to pull this one off topic, but I just noticed too. What DO you mean with being just a guy?

[Randy Rice]

I mean only to say (and you can argue this till your face is blue) that we men tend to be a group of beings that says that women will nit pick and complain over the smallest thing and in response to this (grossly overstated) stereotype we react by not complaing about the little things but in-turn internalize them and allow them to build and build and then the smallest thing happens and guys will blow up and they are never satisfied with the outcome of any "talks" about the issue because everyone thinks that your just blowing up because of the one last thing that happened when in reality it is often weeks and weeks of events that we have built up. So when they say "I'm sorry that I broke your controller two seconds ago" That isnt enough becasue we are still mad over the fact that they left a soda can in our car. This is also a stereotype I will admit but the more and more guys that I meet the more I see this.