Just think of it this way... Once your dead, does it matter?
People who are alive may be upset and such, but they move on... it doesn't really affect you anymore does it?
Sometimes, when I'm feeling really brave I think to myself: "Dying is going to be just like not being born yet, and I didn't mind that too much."
But then other times I think about how I'm just not going to be here anymore and I will have no consciousness or anything and then that I really REALLY hope that there is some kind of afterlife and that if there is I will not be going to hell. My number one choice would definitely be reincarnation.