When to do it and how you feel about doing it, and other issues about doing it have already been discussed. So I now wanna get to a very core issue.
How do you define doing it?
If you have oral sex would you say that makes you not a virgin?
If you've had sex with someone of the same sex but not of the opposite sex, does that mean you're not a virgin?
If someone brings you to orgasm with their hands, would you say that takes away your virginity?
(I have none of my own. On any subject)