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Permalink Reply by Amanda Rue on May 31, 2012 at 11:43am It truly depends. A tap on the bottom is fine. That isn't going to scar a child and neither is a pinch to the arm or ear or something, but I full blown smack to the point that the child turns red and is in pain is not okay. There is a difference between learning your lesson through a short small burst of pain, and fear of your parent because they harmed you.
Permalink Reply by Hutch Hogan on May 31, 2012 at 11:59am But why would you use violence, even light violence to educate children in terms of morality or safety. This seems directly contradictory.
Permalink Reply by Vertigo_One [Ops Mod] on May 31, 2012 at 12:09pm Because the children may not be listening. A small amount of violence is sometimes nessecary to make the child listen.
Permalink Reply by Hutch Hogan on May 31, 2012 at 11:57am Absolutely under no circumstances should parents use violence as a means of discipline.
These studies report that as few as 1 adverse childhood experience, in terms of a physical, verbal or emotional abuse increases likelihood of alcohol abuse, substance abuse, impairs longterm memory and more.
The simple answer is that harming a child does not teach a child right from wrong, it teaches a child to fear its parents and that violence is a viable answer.
Permalink Reply by Vertigo_One [Ops Mod] on May 31, 2012 at 12:08pm Not all violent punishments are abusive childhood experiences. You are oversimplifying.
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