What do Women want?

[Jason dickey]

Believe it or not this is a question that alot of guy's ask. However, I am going to say that they are asking the wrong question. The question is not what do women want but what are women attracted to. I have talked to man women and the majority of them have all said the same thing. I "want" a nice guy that likes to talk about their feelings, is sensitive, likes to cuddle, and all that other girly stuff. However, girls are "attracted" to the opposite. They like the bad boy type. Jerks that play with their emotions, not affraid to hurt their feelings. Just today I talked to a girl that said while she desires a nice guy, they do not turn her on. She gave me an example. She said there were two guys that were once after her. The nice guy was sweet and careing. He was polite and everything that was good. She wanted the guy that called her a bitch. I do not get it. I am hopeing that you ladies can explain it to me. What is it that guys do that attracts girls. Think of it this way. I want every lady to imagine that a guy was flirting with them right now, then I want you ladie's explain what it would take for a guy to get your interest? What would he have to do to get your attention? Possibly a date.

[Chris]

Lady Gaga apparently only wants guys with big penises. Sadly, the interview got taken down from YT, but I saw it before they got it.

Anyway, in my experience, someone who can make them laugh. You should understand that it's different for every woman, and some may want the opposite of another.

[Jason dickey]

This is very true. It depends on personality and maturity level. However, I have interviewed 45 people so to speak and they all have common answers. Nice guys just do not get it done. I am a nice guy. I don't want to be a jerk or change my approach to women but I do not feel like I have a choice. I am 27 years old and I have no idea how to impress a lady. This is why I ask these questions. However, I feel I am not the only one in this situation. I just don't mind looking like an idiot and asking the question in public.

[Matt]

Chocolate.

[dozzzier]

YES.

[Randi]

I love the way you think.

[Randi]

I'm all in for humor.
I've never really been into the bad type; I appreciate respect, but I don't want to be smothered, which is why I don't go for the really nice type either.
I like someone in between, I guess. I want respect, but I don't want someone who does things for me all the time.
Honestly, what gets me is someone who can make me laugh. Although, I've met a jerk or two with a sense of humor, and with the first sign of a-holery, I kick 'em to the curb, so to speak.

Then again, I'm more of a lesbo, so I don't know if it translates.

[Kristen]

It's different for whatever her type is, and what kind of relationship she's looking for. Just like when guys look for a certain type of girl, there's the one that's a huge turn on, where the relationship will probably last maybe a few months max, and then there's the type of girl that you marry. The nice, dependable guy who likes to cuddle is the one you marry, and the bad boy is the one you wanna hook up with. *IN MOST CASES*

[XOX]

To be accepted as who they are. Fat, thin, pretty, ugly, smart, dumb, nice, rude, cool, hotheaded, horny, not-horny....That is not many women, but probably a single women during different time of the week. The lady and the bitch in one single person.

In return, most women would accept men having similiar range, at different time. A gentleman and a jerk all in one.

[Chris]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraxas

[XOX]

Interesting. I didn't know there is such an ancient term for it.

[Chris]

It's an Old God associated with Gnosticism, I picked it up through reading the book Demian by Hermann Hesse.

If you want to learn more, I highly suggest you read it. One of the pivotal points of the book is the acceptance and embrace of both the light and dark sides to yourself. He won a Nobel Prize in literature.

[Emily]

We just want to feel loved.