What do Women want?

Believe it or not this is a question that alot of guy's ask. However, I am going to say that they are asking the wrong question. The question is not what do women want but what are women attracted to. I have talked to man women and the majority of them have all said the same thing. I "want" a nice guy that likes to talk about their feelings, is sensitive, likes to cuddle, and all that other girly stuff. However, girls are "attracted" to the opposite. They like the bad boy type. Jerks that play with their emotions, not affraid to hurt their feelings. Just today I talked to a girl that said while she desires a nice guy, they do not turn her on. She gave me an example. She said there were two guys that were once after her. The nice guy was sweet and careing. He was polite and everything that was good. She wanted the guy that called her a bitch. I do not get it. I am hopeing that you ladies can explain it to me. What is it that guys do that attracts girls. Think of it this way. I want every lady to imagine that a guy was flirting with them right now, then I want you ladie's explain what it would take for a guy to get your interest? What would he have to do to get your attention? Possibly a date.

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Permalink Reply by Jacqueline on July 15, 2009 at 10:30pm: It's different between every girl, I don't think all guys like the same type of girl.. right? I mean all the guys I talk to LOVE Megan Fox, but frankly, I can't stand her.

I, personally, like funny guys. So, a guy can easily get my attention by making a joke or something. But, what I really love are the fun & confident guys. They're not afraid to let loose and they don't care what people think of them. I, also, think guys who aren't afraid to cry are awesome.

P.S. If a guy ever called me a bitch, I'd slap the shit outta him. :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Matt on July 16, 2009 at 8:13am: It's not so much that they love Megan Fox as much as it is they lust Megan Fox.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Laura on July 15, 2009 at 10:41pm: in regards to Jacqueline's comment...a-MEN, sister!1
it's true enough, i think what girls want in a guy is as varied a thing as what guys want in a girl. sometimes, i get the feeling people pretend to be cynical and cold-hearted, and only into meaningless sex or whatnot because they're trying to be cool or something.
sometimes i worry that romance and monogamy (monogomy? sp???) is considered 'old fashioned' in our society, and so people try to 'keep with the times' or summat. that probably isn't helping the rest of us who are more the 'relationship-y' types.
on a side note...
i've always been more attracted, AND interested in 'nice' guys, went out with two and then they very abruptly pulled the rug. so...i guess the real point of this is, sometimes people are wolves in sheep's clothing, and afterwards, people are afraid to jump back into the fray.
maybe some of the girls you are talking to who aren't responding or who are making you frustrated like this or whatever are just worried they might get hurt again. that makes things tough, too. just like guys are afraid to get hurt again after they've been hurt once or twice or more.
dig?
(hope this made some slight sense. if not...sorry 'bout that!1); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Number8 on July 15, 2009 at 10:48pm: Well thinking about every guy I've ever liked... confidence is a big thing. Or, really, a guy doing something that he really loves really, really well. Like this guy in a play I'm doing does his bit REALLY well with a lot of enthusiasm and he's got a really big friendly smile. I've never talked to him beyond just 'hi' but I find him attractive. Or, as was the case in my only real romantic relationship, the guy taking an interest in me is attractive. I can't speak for the whole gender, by that's what seems to happen with people I like.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jessica on July 15, 2009 at 11:09pm: To be loved! And chocolate. :D

But really, there is no definite answer and every girl wants something different. Some really will pick an asshole who's sexy versus an unattractive sweetheart and I say that's their loss. But in the case you mentioned that seems to be based more on sexual desire than anything, or maybe it seems that way because to me that would be the only reason for making that decision. Some can't help who they like and in my experience that's hard to change. I would try finding some common ground and branching out from there. Personally, I look for honesty, earnesty, (chocolate,) and chemistry. (Oops 'earnesty' isn't a word, but you know what I mean, right?)

And by the way I think that most girls (except in the occasion of loud, kinky sex) don't like to be called bitches.
(Sorry if I sound pretentious in this, these are just my thoughts on the subject, hope it helps!); ▶ Reply to This