whats a whats a nerdfighter girl to do?

whats a nerdfighter girl to do when she's madly in love with one of her best friends, but cant do anything about it because he likes someone else and one of her other friends likes him, but shes sure they're perfect for each other
and she just found out that he's a nerdfighter too

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Permalink Reply by luna(dftba) on November 15, 2009 at 2:40pm: i have no idea. im sortof in the same situation with my crush and a one of my best friends. the friend is a nerdfighter, the crush is a nerd just not on the web.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by thedragonfruitking on November 15, 2009 at 2:48pm: go virginnia tech on all of 'em; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by sagwakitty131 on November 15, 2009 at 3:17pm: rlly, ur being serious?
u know how insensitive that was?
too soon
way too soon; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by thedragonfruitking on November 18, 2009 at 12:45pm: too soon? shrug
still was a serious sugestion tho; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Paulsifer on November 18, 2009 at 2:58pm: why do these comments not surprise me?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by sagwakitty131 on November 19, 2009 at 7:48pm: well non of them are very helpful; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Paulsifer 7 hours ago: He doesn't have very many constructive comments.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cara D. on November 20, 2009 at 4:12pm: Dearest thedragonfruitking,
Seriously?
Ass.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Michelle Bruder on November 19, 2009 at 8:46pm: I guess I'd need more information to give exact advice.
But you need to think about what your chances with him are like and how awkward things would be if he knew you were interested but didn't return the feelings.
If he's more mature (and he's a nerdfighter, so it's possible), then I would suggest thinking it through, but just telling him how you feel.
Things will be a bit uncomfortable for a bit, but afterwards you will feel so much better
AND you might have a pretty good chance with him anyways.
You'll never know if you don't try.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cara D. on November 20, 2009 at 4:14pm: I feel your pain. The friendzone is a dark, cruel place void of rainbows and making out.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by wondergirl. on November 20, 2009 at 4:16pm: oh goodness, i had nearly the same problem before.
cameron is my bestfriend. but he's gay...
you kind of just have to get it out into the open and let it sink into everyone. that way you're not feeling like it's all stuffed up inside.
you'll feel better.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by BSmith on November 20, 2009 at 4:23pm: If you're under the age of 21, go find someone else. If you're over the age of 21, think about it for a bit and then go find someone else. There are lots of guys out there.; ▶ Reply to This