whats a whats a nerdfighter girl to do?

[sagwakitty131]

whats a nerdfighter girl to do when she's madly in love with one of her best friends, but cant do anything about it because he likes someone else and one of her other friends likes him, but shes sure they're perfect for each other
and she just found out that he's a nerdfighter too

[Melissa Asselin]

Situations like that are very complicated and annoying. I myself just got out of a similar situation. You never know what someone else is thinking, and most of the time you don't know what they're feeling. I, regrettably, am still in love with my best friend, but I now live thousands of miles away from him. I know that it is very hard to have strong feelings for someone so close to you, and feel like you can't act on them. In some situations, its good to just tell the person how you feel, but at the same time that is a big risk. Sometimes you just don't want to complicate the situation even more. But something that I think you should defiantly do, is try not to think of the guy as something more than he is. I mean sure, he may be amazing, and you may love him, but everyone has their faults. You also need to think about what is really important to you. For me, I could have tried with my best friend before I moved, and risk us falling apart. But I decided that I couldn't bear the idea of losing his friendship. I thought back on all of the fun times we had together, and decided that our relationship would no doubt end at some point, but I never wanted to lose my best friend.

I'm not sure if any of this will be helpful for you, but I wish you the best, and I'm very sorry that you're in such tough situation.

[charles baker]

Have a Polyamory relationship then you can all be happy.

[sagwakitty131]

the thing is i know he likes someone else so i cant tell him how i feel

[Melissa Asselin]

Well, if you think that his feelings for someone else will ruin your chances with him, then all you can do is try to move on, and hope to keep the good friendship.

[LucyLou]

Walk up to him, tell him you like him more than a friend. See what happens.