Kenny, she was asking me. She can come over to my place and I'll explain the *ahem* "joke" to her.
Is it just me or do you look kind of young? Nevermind, just come in through the back and don't let anyone see you.
It all depends on what sex means for that person. People wait to have sex because they feel either it is a sacred act creation or that waiting won't rush a wedding. Waiting also prevents people from being on shows like 16 and pregnant (most types of birth control can do the same thing if used properly).
This next part is kind of dirty so if you don't like dirty or sex skip this next paragraph.
The size and quickness of your lover would be arbitrary. The most sensitive parts on a female's body are extremely small and do not require a large banana to properly stimulate them. I have friends whose girlfriends prefer them to use their fingers instead because they are too big to get the job done. Also being premature shouldn't bother you. In fact you should take it as a compliment. Being premature can happen for many reasons. One cause is that the pleasure is more intense for him than it is for which is why you should take it as a compliment toward your sexual abilities.
I am not a virgin. I choose to act the way I do. I view sex as a way to connect to your partner on a more personal level than just talking. Sex is way more intimate and can be romantic if done right.
Regardless, I'd argue that it's a matter of risk/benefit.
The risk being pregnancy, STD's, et cetera. The benefit being growing close to a person and potentially becoming life-mates to each other. With the right precautions, both are unlikely.
You should not wait until marriage to have your first sexual experience. That's wrong in so many way. But of course, you have to be mature enough to have sex.
Science disagrees with you.