Where Do You Fit?

[The Hunt]

I'm just curious about the sexuality of the people who have joined this group.
Are you straight, gay or what ever else?

Also, is there anyone who finds it difficult to fit into a category?

I know I do.
I'm a guy. I don't disciminate (or at least as little as possible within our society) between girls and guys clothes, I'll wear either. I'm far more sexually attracted to females than males. I am attracted to males but not really in a sexual way. And I think I'd rather be a girl than guy.
Quite a long winded thing to say when I'm asked about my sexuality so I usually just say that I'm bi.

[Plottoberry]

Questioning. I wasn't interested in guys or girls through highschool. I felt like I was very different because I didn't understood who was considered to be ''sexy'' when girls talked about Orlando Bloom (I was also different because I was actively doing stuff in politics and writing poetry instead of getting drunk every Saturday). I didn't felt that way about anyone. I did had some crushes (males) and fantasized about guys, but I didn't felt like doing anything actively with it. When I was 17, the hormones started to get me and when I turned 18, I was eager to experience it all. I'm 21 now and a month ago, I started this fysical fling with a girl. I am sexually attracted to her, I'm curious and it's a lot of fun. She's actually the type that I would fall for, only I wasn't aware that there was a female version of it. It seems all more complete now - it is very logical for me to experience it from both sides.

I often call myself a bisexual now and most people in my environment know about it (except for my family). I do think that this might be a phase, but it doesn't matter to me. I'm enjoying it a lot at the moment and I think I'm very lucky that I have the opportunity to experience it all. I also realize that I'm still very new to everything when I count in years, so I can't expect myself to know already. I am happy that I started dating/sex when I was in college instead of highschool, because I was less insecure, more confident and I knew what I wanted and more important - what I didn't want. Some people say I'm ''late'', but it would have been weird for me to start dating when I was 15. Luckily, my brother is just discovering girls and he's almost 25, so I'm not alone. ^^

I might be a straight girl who likes to have sex with both genders. I'm very openminded about a lot of things, which makes it difficult to 'decide'. I might like queers or hermaphrodites as well.

[Willow Pruitt]

I'm pansexual, someone who sees love, not gender. If I like someone, I like them. I don't care if they're boy or girl. Love is so rare, you shouldn't let something small like a chromosome stand in the way of it.

[Pixie "Typo Queen" MzAwesome]

I am versatile. I haven't like the term bi because that implies that there is only two genders.  I used the term pansexual for a while but I find that term too pretentious,  I also felt I wasn't queer enough to use that term.  So I like versatile!

[Alison Franklin]

Hi, I just joined this group and I already love it!

 

I don't know where I fit anymore.  Really.  I considered myself pretty much all the way straight (but I was on the GSA board in my high school, so it was a loving, accepting straight) until my best friend came out as a lesbian.  Whereupon I realized that I was absolutely in love with her, and that we'd been in love with each other and completely oblivious for basically most of high school.  Turned out I was gay enough to be with her.

 

Long, painful story short: she turned into an evil asshole and stopped being the girl I was in love with, only I couldn't admit that until at least 2 months after she unceremoniously (more or less) kicked me out of our apartment, which had been my home for over a year.  (I'm more than halfway over it by now, though it's been almost 10 months since this all went down.)

 

We had been together for over two years, and best friends basically since we were eight years old.  We were engaged.

 

So, now I'm back to being single, and I guess it's possible for me to be into guys still.  But somehow, over the course of 2+ years of discovering what it was like to be gay, the whole penis thing just.. freaks me out a little.  :-P  That might be a relationship barrier.  Also.. I'm a GOLD STAR.  Who wants to lose their gold star?

 

I'm just really, really confused.  So far I've come to accept that I'm hopelessly attracted to butch lesbians and James McAvoy.

 

Discuss.  :-P

[Trisha Grace]

Aw I'm so sorry you had to go through with that D:

[Rachel Rhodes]

This is such a hard question! Females are probably the most attractive thing on the planet aside from Johnny Depp but (i know i am a girl) girls are so hard to get along with. It really sucks that the attractive race is the race that i dont like being around.Guys are such delightful beings, but they're so strange. . .

To put it simply, I'm confused. . .

[Sarah Willemse]

I'm not really sure what I am. I've never really been in love, so that makes it hard to decide, but I suppose I've had crushes on both guys and girls. Notice the ''I suppose''. That's the confusing bit, I'm not sure if they are crushes or if I just really liked them. Anyway, I just assume I'm Bi, unless something happens to prove different. I can't be sure either way

[Rwanda]

That's exactly how it is for me, though I consider myself pansexual.

[Plottoberry]

Take your time! The first time I really fell in love was in college. I wasn't into guys/girls in highschool... I was into books, politics, culture, fanfiction and poetry! *proud nerd*

[Lauren Alicia Wood]

I'm a questioning female, I am only young and I don't think I am entirely sure yet, I have experiences of being attracted to both males and females so I am not rushing to assign myself a label.

[Amanda Carrie Free]

Well, I'm a lesbian . Thats all there is to it really. I mean I may think a guy is cute every now and then but I'm attracted emotionally and physically to females and males just don't do it for me.

[Andrew Turney]

If you've ever read about or seen the movie about Dr. Kinsey (played by Liam Neeson). Dr. Kinsey was a real person and was the first person to being into light how kinky people actually are, and forever changed what was considered 'normal' sexuality. He proposed that sexuality isn't really a category, but more of a spectrum known as the Kinsey Scale. 
While I think this is the right idea I don't agree that any amount of integers can accurately contain all ideas of sexuality.

I consider myself a male who dresses in cloths American society would consider masculine. I only ever cross dress for fund raisers or the occasional laugh (I'm not a pretty man). I can distinguish between attractive and unattractive men and women both; however, I only seek relationships with women.

I believe that is as succinct as I can be on the topic.