nerdfighters who hate their moms

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Comment by JuliaLovesBooks on November 11, 2009 at 11:40am

i get what you mean... except my dad doesn't really get thaqt way... and my mom sort of crosses that border.

Comment by Elaine on November 11, 2009 at 10:47am

Sometimes it's my father sometimes my mother. My mother is more controlling, and says stuff, but my father doesn't stick up for me and loosen the controls, he just lets her shut everything in my life down, and says the worst stuff and when he gets angry he can be... er, borderline abusive?

Comment by JuliaLovesBooks on November 11, 2009 at 10:42am

Exactly how I feel, but substitute brother for "three brothers and a sister"...And my dad isn't bad, he's just a wimp who won't stand up to my mom.... but that doesn't make much of a difference... I feel exactly like you do.

Comment by Elaine on November 11, 2009 at 10:13am

Then it's not just me.
I don't know whether to be grateful for that or not...

I sometimes would consider telling someone when my father is really angry(he's just as bad as my mother, just in slightly different ways), but I don't want anything to happen to the family. My little brother couldn't handle it. And I need to protect him, because for now he's fine.

So since I don't know what to do I just sit the confused

Comment by JuliaLovesBooks on November 11, 2009 at 9:59am

@elaine... I think it is, actually...
My mom's abusive... but I also love her... I hate her... but I love her and would miss her too much if I went to a foster home or whatever....
The whole love/hate thing is making me really screwed up and confused.

Comment by Elaine on November 11, 2009 at 9:47am

I hate it, I hate her, but I love her....I am going to snap from living at home the way she's making me. I don't get to leave and go to college right away, I have to spend as many years as possible at the community college so that she can control me. I'm 17 and even once I'm 18 she's made it clear that I won't be allowed to stay up past ten, or go to sleep overs with the other girls, or visit friends on college breaks. And the things you've told me have scarred me mentally too.

Then she tries to buy me off with jewelry. Thanks mom, but I don't want your cold hard diamonds and gold. I want you to stop controlling me by refusing me the things I truly want if I do ANYTHING you don't like.

As many things as she has done part of me still loves her while part of me hates her. Is that normal?

Comment by JuliaLovesBooks on November 4, 2009 at 11:19pm

Lovely....now we can add "addicted to cutting" to the list of issues my mother has caused for me...

Comment by Kaja Raviwan Wattne on November 2, 2009 at 10:02am

LOL

Comment by Lupus on October 1, 2009 at 6:47am

I hate my mum. The bitch gave me away when I was three month old.

Comment by Teal Wehner on September 30, 2009 at 9:48pm

It's pretty damn sad that I'm 17, my mother is 45, and I'm the adult here. I wish she would grow up and take responsibility for her own actions. I was forced to grow up at the age of 8 and thanks to her and all her boyfriends, I'll never get my childhood back. Thanks a bunch "mom" !!

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