Do you ever get friend crushes on people, but not want to scare them away by coming on too strong? Sometimes I meet someone and I just want to sit and listen to them talk all day or talk with them online all the time, but then I'm like, no, then people will think you are a stalker. Or maybe it's not romantic at all, and you don't want to give the wrong impression. I try to play it cool, but I don't know how much "cool" shows that you don't care about them one way or the other.
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I also have the problem where after I just get to know someone, sometimes I want to tell them I think they look nice, but I don't know how to say it without sounding like I'm hitting on them, or if it's online that I'm being sarcastic. :(
There should be a word/phrase in English that means, "I'm married/in a committed relationship, but I think you are neat and an attractive person."
It's not like it's something that HAS to be said, but I get urges and I don't know how to make it come out the right way. Especially when the person is saying something that vagely implies they are not attractive.
THIS HAPPENS TO ME ALL THE TIME!!!!!! I always over think how much I contact them so they end up thinking I don't like them at all. But usually I never get the courage up to tell them I really do like them and then I never talk to them again.
The End. *cries*
Thank God this isn't just me! There's a group of girls in my course in college who are best friends now and just seem to mess around and have loads of fun together; they have my kind of humour too. I'd love to be friends with them but it just wouldn't work. They're all outgoing and I just wouldn't fit in. :/ oh well.
I understand completely! There are a couple of people that I go to school with that I have "friend crushes" on. They seem really neat and cool, but I don't know how to communicate that without scaring them off. One of them is a guy and has a girlfriend, so that complicates things. Even though I don't like him that way, I feel as if she wouldn't approve of us just hanging out together. I'm too shy to try and be better friends and too scared to make his girlfriend angry...for some reason I don't understand how to be friends with committed guys D: I feel as if there is some line that is too easily crossed.
Yes and to many of my friends. One of my friends that I've just met at school is completely amazing and the sweetest personality. I wanna tell him that he is just perfect the way he is but I think I'll seem too weird and stupid.